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First Date Conversation Starters: 10 Thought-Provoking Questions to Ask

  • Writer: Carole A.
    Carole A.
  • Nov 13, 2024
  • 1 min read

Updated: Jul 26, 2025

Carole Abalekpor 11/12/2024


Here are some thought provoking first date questions. These are meant to promote natural conversation and establish a true chemistry between you and your date.




Tell me about yourself!

This is an easy question to start a date off with. It is a very simple but telling question.

Do you enjoy traveling? If yes, what is your dream destination?

Even though it is just a first date, this question helps you see if your future plans align.

What traits are you looking for in a partner?

This questions helps you determine if you & your date are a good fit.

What is your favorite International dish?

Shows how open they are and if they are willing to try new things.

What is your favorite movie & genre?

This question helps establish similarities and differences between you and your potential partner.

How would someone else describe you?

This question helps establish an outside view of a persons character.

What would you say is your world view?

This is the perfect question to ask if you are trying to gauge their political stance.

Do you have any pets/what kind?

I always say how a person reacts to animals shows who they are a person. Pay attention to their response to this!

What is your favorite alcoholic & non-alcoholic beverage?

This is a fun question that helps to establish their possible habits.

What is the weirdest fear you have?

This questions reveals aspects of their personality and psyche.



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